Today, we are living in a world of digital distractions. For most, making the time to sit down and read a book can be daunting; however, reading is, in my opinion, one of the most rewarding habits one can develop. Whether you have been wanting to escape into a new world, learn a few new facts or hobbies, or just sit and relax to unwind, there’s a perfect book out there for you! Let’s get started and find the perfect read for you.
Find the right books for you
The biggest struggle when starting out is losing the motivation. This often stems from picking books you won’t enjoy. Instead of forcing your way into reading until you find the perfect book, start with books that align with your genuine interests!
Think about your interests. Do you love mysteries? What about fantasy or horror? Are you more into self-improvement at this stage? Reflect on your favorite hobbies, tv shows, movies, and interests, then pick a book that falls into that genre!
You also want to pick something engaging. Many start with thrillers, memoirs, or young adult fiction. All of these options tend to be fast-paced and keep you hooked throughout the entirety of the book.
If you are still struggling with a place or book to start with, check out best seller lists or recommendations from friends that are readers! Goodreads is an app that has millions of recommendations and reviews.
TikTok, which has been given the nickname BookTok for this subject, has millions of recommendations for almost any genre! The plus side is, once you enter the BookTok side on your for you page, the recommendations will be endless.
Another site that is known for popular books and sales is the New York Times best seller list. You can almost never go wrong with the top books on this list!
Start small and build up
If it has been a long time since you have indulged in reading, or even if you are completely new to it, diving into a long and difficult book can be discouraging. Rather, start with shorter books. Novellas, short stories, and graphic novels can help you find your interests while also obtaining the start small theory.
You could also try audiobooks. Listening to books while communicating or doing chores can help you get used to the stories you like without the feeling of being overwhelmed. Regardless of if you are listening or reading the book, you do not have to finish cover to cover in one setting. Reading 10 to 15 minutes a day is a good starting goal and will still allow your mind to relax a bit.
Develop reading into a habit
Just as any habit happens, reading becomes easier when you do it consistently. Set a reading goal. Whether it is a number of pages a day, or reading for ten minutes before bed, set a small goal to make reading a fun habit!
Another great opportunity with reading is the ability to replace screen time and doom scrolling with mind activating hobbies. When you get bored, read a chapter instead of scrolling on social media.
Reading is an extremely relaxing habit. Find a cozy place to escape reality! A comfortable spot, like a reading chair or patio at sunset, can make reading more enjoyable.
Eliminate distractions
If you struggle to focus while reading, try these tricks:
Use the pomodoro technique. Read for twenty-five minutes, then take a five minute break. Reading can be fun, but also tiring. Try not to overuse your brain.
Put your phone away. Notifications will pull you out of the story and keep your mind on other topics.
Take a break from the screen completely and leave it in the other room!
Read at a time when you are relaxed. Reading when you are stressed will keep you from focusing on the story and enjoying the plot. Before bed or early in the morning can be great times to read without any distractions from the events of the day.
Don’t force it
Not every book is for everyone, and that’s okay! If you’re not enjoying a book, don’t feel bad for quitting. If that book isn’t engaging you then move on to another one. You could also try a different format. Some books are better as audiobooks or e-books. Most importantly, read what makes you happy! There is no “right” way to be a reader!
Reading is a personal and enjoyable experience, and there’s no pressure to read a certain way. Reading is a way to relax, engage your mind, and unwind by escaping reality. By starting small, choosing the right books, and making reading a habit, you’ll soon find yourself hooked!